…forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us… (The Lord’s Prayer) How many times have we prayed these words yet let them quietly pass by? As followers of the Christ of mercy, and with hearts shaped by His love, we are meant to share in the grace of forgiveness. Forgiveness, whether we seek this grace or grant it, is an act of faith. It is an act of love. And it is difficult. Forgiveness requires courage and humility to ask for, and great compassion to offer, which is why it comes to us as a freeing and healing Grace from God.
What obstacles prevent us from offering forgiveness to one another? In our own weakness and shame, we prayerfully ask the Lord for His forgiveness, and He grants it – over and over and over without hesitation. Yet, we might find ourselves denying that same mercy. Abundant healing begins when, with truth and honesty, we acknowledge what is in the way. If there is a need to offer forgiveness to someone else, then we’ve likely been hurt which stirs our vulnerability and challenges our emotions. It might not ‘seem’ right to grant forgiveness, but forgiveness is of God, so it is right…and good. Granting forgiveness does not mean we forget or ‘get rid’ of the experience. Yet we find a place—a proper and graced place—for the offense and prayerfully process the experience with loving guidance from the Lord. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
We also quite naturally find difficulty in seeking forgiveness, in admitting and accepting our part in causing someone else’s suffering. We’re likely ashamed, embarrassed, and perhaps burdened with guilt. But through this act of faith and love, we step toward wholeness of spirit and restored peace of heart, knowing that we are not alone. We begin healing by offering our humility and surrendering our wrongdoings, so that we may receive the renewing freedom that forgiveness brings.
We seek forgiveness from the Lord and are grateful to receive it. Is there someone who could be blessed and shown the love of God by your forgiveness? Who could be freed from a heavy burden? Do you need to forgive yourself? The act of forgiveness changes paths from heavy to light, hearts from closed to open, and spirits from sorrowful to joyful. With humility and courage, let us pray for the grace of forgiveness so that we, those who have hurt us, and those whom we have hurt encounter the merciful Lord who loves and heals.
“Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.” (Matthew 5:7)
Next week, the grace of awareness.
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